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Finale Week

  • Posted on May 12, 2009 at 6:00 am

There aren’t a whole lot of television shows that I must watch. I’ll admit that my CSIs and other crime shows have gotten old to me. This season of LOST has left me totally LOST. So, this Wednesday, I do believe that I’ll be skipping it and watching the Penguins vs. the CRapitals. Tonight, I watched the finale of Castle and I have to admit that I was slightly disappointed. Not that I wanted Castle to be shot, but the previews alluded to it and well, for me, that would’ve been a better hook. I mean, it’s a good hook with Kate’s mom’s murder, but for me, it just wasn’t enough. Feel free to argue with me. I allow. I just hoped Castle comes back again next year, because I saw so much potential for that show.

Thursday, I already know I’m going to need a wash cloth. Grey’s is back and it’s been making me cry. I love Izzie Stevens. I even like Alex this season. He’s really grown and for him to come this far only to lose Izzie. Well, it just doesn’t seem fair. But I for one am so glad that the writers of Grey’s got over their slump.

Survivor and even Idol haven’t really held my attention for the first time in years. What’s up with that?

What are your favorite television shows? I know I’ve asked this before. But I don’t want this blog to solely be just about writing. I want it to be about things you want to talk about too. ;)

Waiting

  • Posted on May 11, 2009 at 2:51 pm

I hate it. I often joke that when God handed out patience, he totally skipped me. I swear he did. Even heading quickly towards 40, if there’s a present with my name on it, it beckons to me. Even a card and My Guy knows it too. He had my Mother’s Day Card on the mantle, propped up against my clock for a week. Its pretty pink enveope teased and taunted me the entire week. And he’s uber sweet because it has a pretty flower that you can peel the petals off for wishes. I don’t want to ruin the card, but the sentiment behind it was priceless. So was the dog and bird chasing the lil mouse since when he calls I’m either complaining about the bird being so loud or I’m tripping over the dog. I had the perfect, simple day with my family. How was your mother’s day?

Oh and why or what am I waiting for?

If I tell you, I’d have to kill you and I like everyone who pops in here. ;)

Crabby Old Man

  • Posted on May 8, 2009 at 6:00 am

I’m in the writing cave, but my friend Becky sent this to me and well, I had to share it. Plus it gives me something to say on my blog. :smile1_tb: I don’t know how true the story is that goes with this poem, but it’s sweet none the less.

 

When an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in North Platte , Nebraska , it was believed that he had nothing left of any value. Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, They found this poem.

Its quality and content so impressed the staff that copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.

One nurse took her copy to Missouri . The old man’s sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas edition of the News Magazine of the St. Louis Association for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.

And this little old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this ‘ anonymous’ poem winging across the Internet.

Crabby Old Man

I’ll tell you who I am. . . . . As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding, . . . As I eat at your will
I’m a small child of Ten . . . . . . . With a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters . . . . Who love one another
A young boy of Sixteen . . . . With wings on his feet
Dreaming that soon now . . . . . A lover he’ll meet
A groom soon at Twenty. . . . my heart gives a leap
Remembering, the vows . . . . . That I promised to keep .
At Twenty-Five, now . . . . . . I have young of my own
Who need me to guide . . . . And a secure happy home
A man of Thirty . . . . . My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other . .. . With ties that should last
At Forty, my young sons . . Have grown and are gone,
But my woman’s beside me . . . To see I don’t mourn
At Fifty, once more, . Babies play ‘ round my knee,
Again, we know children . . . . My loved one and me

Dark days are upon me . . My wife is now dead
I look at the future . . . .. . . . . . I shudder with dread
For my young are all rearing . . . . . . Young of their own .
And I think of the years . . . And the love that I’ve known .
I ‘m now an old man .. . . . . . . . And nature is cruel
Tis jest to make old age . . . . Look like a fool
The body, it crumbles . . . . Grace and vigor, depart
There is now a stone . . . . . . Where I once had a heart
But inside this old carcass . . A young guy still dwells,
And now and again . . . . . . My battered heart swells
I remember the joys . . . .I remember the pain

And I’m loving and living . . . . . . . Life over again .
I think of the years all too few . . . . . Gone too fast .
And accept the stark fact . . . . . . . That nothing can last
So open your eyes, people . . .. . . Open and see..
Not a crabby old man . Look closer . . . . See . .. . . ME!!

Remember this poem when you next meet an older person who you might brush aside without looking at the young soul within . . We will all, one day, be there, too!

Tweakage

  • Posted on May 7, 2009 at 4:14 pm

The whole way around. I promise this will match the website very soon and not look like this. I had to upload a theme that allowed me to do that. The smiley’s are back and will be updated soon as well. In the meantime, I’m trying to write my butt off. Bear with me.

Owned

  • Posted on May 6, 2009 at 10:07 am

So here I sit on the couch. The side that’s worn and makes my butt hurt if I sit here too long instead of in my comfy office chair at the dining room table. Why?

Because I’m owned by a dog. This particular dog.

A very needy dog. He doesn’t want to sit on my lap for more than a couple of seconds and laying at my feet while I’m in the comfy chair isn’t good enough either. Nope. He wants the not sat on so much side of the couch, just close enough to me. And if I don’t sit in here, he whines. He’s up in the chair, he’s down off the chair. He’s biting at my fingers while he’s up and barking at me while he’s down. If I tell him to go lay down…he barks louder. I shudder to think of what he could be possibly trying to tell me. But I have a good idea.

Are you owned? Any advice on how to get the puppy or cat to realize you cannot sit there just because they want you too? I’ll be getting an office soon. Should I put a bed in there for him? Not enough room for a couch or love seat.

Clay Balls

  • Posted on May 5, 2009 at 6:00 am

Yesterday wasn’t a great day for me. It was raining and I was a little sore. I’m trying to lose weight. I have weddings this summer to attend and quite possibly my own. It just depends on our financial situation as a lot of unexpected projects came up and I figure we waited this long, we can either wait or just do something fairly simple and call it…a marriage. Today probably isn’t going to be any better because Pilates kicked my ass. There’s no other way to put it. I over did it. My fault.

My friend Kathy sent this to me and I loved it. I’ve found a lot of gems in the rough over the last few years and I want to thank you all for being there for me in times of need, even when I might not have deserved it.

A man was exploring caves by the Seashore. In one of the caves he found a canvas bag with a bunch of hardened clay balls. It was like someone had rolled clay balls and left them out in the sun to bake. They didn’t look like much, but they intrigued the man, so he took the bag out of the cave with him. As he strolled along the beach, he would throw the clay balls one at a time out into the ocean as far as he could.

He thought little about it, until he dropped one of the clay balls and it cracked open on a rock . Inside was a beautiful, precious stone!

Excited, the man started breaking open the remaining clay balls. Each contained a similar treasure. He found thousands of dollars worth of jewels in the 20 or so clay balls he had left.

Then it struck him. He had been on the beach a long time. He had thrown maybe 50 or 60 of the clay balls with their hidden treasure into the ocean waves. Instead of thousands of dollars in treasure, he could have taken home tens of thousands, but he had just thrown it away!

It’s like that with people. We look at someone, maybe even ourselves, and we see the external clay vessel. It doesn’t look like much from the outside. It isn’t always beautiful or sparkling, so we discount it.

We see that person as less important than someone more beautiful or stylish or well known or wealthy. But we have not taken the time to find the treasure hidden inside that person.

There is a treasure in each and every one of us. If we take the time to get to know that person, and if we ask God to show us that person the way He sees them, then the clay begins to peel away and the brilliant gem begins to shine forth.

May we not come to the end of our lives and find out that we have thrown away a fortune in friendships because the gems were hidden in bits of clay. May we see the people in our world as God sees them.

I am so blessed by the gems of friendship I have with you.. Thank you for looking beyond my clay vessel.

Weekend Update

  • Posted on May 4, 2009 at 9:25 am

While I write this, I’m going to try and think of a title. Friday, the boy went to the prom with one of his best friends. I took lots and lots of pictures, but the one I’m going to share on here is my favorite. A rare moment between brother and sister, let me tell you.

I took this weekend off and we spent time with the kids, some time with our friends and then yesterday we had a John Hughes movie fest. The oldest boy had never seen The Breakfast Club. I’d gotten him Weird Science for Easter and at first he was hestitant to watch. He loved them both. Next up for us is Sixteen Candles. They’ve been digitally remastered. It’s funny to watch them with the kids and then they’ll say, “Isn’t that Iron Man?” They laughed in all the right places and my daughter said, things haven’t changed all that much. I think it gave them a better undestanding that I truly wasn’t hatched into a parent. ;)

TGIM

  • Posted on May 1, 2009 at 10:14 am

I don’t know about the rest of you, but I for one am glad that April is over. It was just 30 days of crap here at Casa Heather. Except for the fact that I finally–FINALLY got some writing done and winged a proposal to NY.

I’ll even give you a sneak peek at the blurb.

Struggling CEO Christian Kennedy needs help turning his grandfather’s bank around, and Daniella Grey is just the woman to do it. As the former assistant to one of the old money crowd he’s trying to win, she can give him the connections he needs, and when he catches her brother embezzling money from his company, he has the leverage he needs to blackmail her into becoming his assistant. But he wasn’t banking on their one night of indiscretion providing him with an heir to the business he’s trying to save. With his scheme standing between them, will he be able to make her an offer she can’t refuse?

I have to send a shout-out to Shannon Stacey for helping me with that. I was ready to come unglued. I’m not good at condensing and finding the right action words. She totally rocks at it and knows just the right questions to ask. So, hopefully, I’ll have some news on that in the near future. All I know is that it feels so good to be writing again.

In other news, my oldest son is attending his first prom. Of course it’s raining off and on. He’ll be home in a little bit to start the getting ready process. He’s excited. I am too and yet in some ways, it’s killing me. He’s growing into such a fine adult. A handsome man and next year at this time, he’ll be getting ready to graduate high school. He turns 17 this month and it’s hard to fathom that the years have raced by.

In the meantime, we’re going to be working some more on my website. Chelle is doing a fantastic job. Check out my home page for my site and tell me what you think. Seriously. I want to hear from you. You can leave your suggestions in the comment box on here. I don’t think the email is working right on my website.

Time to get cracking back at picking up the house and flowers and I can’t forget batteries for the camera. Pictures to follow soon.